Crying in the Mirror
Those who have prior knowledge of the mirror test might believe it will be a smooth journey into understanding what Lacan is getting up to in his paper “The Mirror Stage as Formative of the Function of the I as Revealed in Psychoanalytic Experience.” They would be wrong, and I would suggest they buckle up because Lacan goes where no “monkey” (1112), man, or magpie has gone before when he takes the otherwise ordinary event of an infant encountering their image in a mirror and synthesizes from it a moment which “would seem to exhibit in an exemplary situation the symbolic matrix in which the I is precipitated in a primordial form” and claims it is when “the agency of the ego” (1112) is manifested.
Lacan emphasizes the “imagos of one’s body” (1113) is of particular potency for the child who before encountering it exists as Gestalt; a form (or formlessness, rather) defined by the infant’s very lack of the necessary “imago…to establish a relation between the organism and its reality” (1114). So it is the “drama” of the mirror phase which transfers the child from a state of “insufficiency to anticipation—and which manufactures for the subject…the succession of phantasies that extends from a fragmented body-image to a form of its totality” (1114). In short, this experience works to manufacture a sort of dialectical relationship between self and image which leads to a “fragmented body” (1114). That our bodies and notions of self are built upon the “misrecognitions” (1116) apparent to the child who, in their reflection, see a capable, whole being even when they remain “sunk in [their] motor incapacity and nursling dependence” (1112) or Gestalt is something which Lacan argues must lead to a resolution. This fundamental tension or “alienation” (1115) between the Gestalt and the Imagos is precisely where the child learns to associate with the image they are confronted with; “which [they] must resolve as I” (1112). Thus, it is through the process of identification that we are alienated…
But… also through the process of alienation that we are… identified…
And, I think this contradiction might be my major problem with this moment that Lacan signals as being vital for subject formation. He spends a great deal of time emphasizing this point of visual contact and has to continuously rely on the ineptitude of the child in the Infans stage to legitimize his claim. However, I think that there is something a bit reductive in believing that the child has no contact with or notion of “self” prior to the body fragmentation that transpires in the mirror. There are, of course, quite obvious examples when we think of blind children, children without regular access to mirrors, and so forth who all still come to develop a robust sense of self. But, perhaps more generally, I get the feeling that Lacan doesn’t seem to recognize the manner that other bodily senses are very much so happening for children before (or if) they find their own reflection and that these experiences are developmental. The child feels and hears and tastes and has preferences for certain sensory input. A child knows its own voice and its own desires. And, I think it is for this reason that the infant can be identified (and thus alienated) at all! They are already more than the abstracted Gestalt Lacan makes them out to be by the time their Imagos appears before them.
This isn’t to say that I disagree with Lacan, though. We are alienated from ourselves to a certain extent. There is a dual relationship between the body and the ego and we exist neither as one nor the other and, yes, obviously something important does happen when a child realizes that they are more than the sum of their “jubilant activity” (1112). But, there seems to be something far more relevant going on when we stop viewing the mirror stage as a one off event and start thinking of it as something ongoing and multifaceted. For example, I love thinking about the mirror stage in relation to my virtual identity. I think body fragmentation was/is more real for me not when I looked in the mirror, but when I used avatars on video games or logged onto social media. In a similar vein, what does “gaze” have to do with subject formation? Is ego something that develops from the self and the mirror alone? What about the other subjects around us that confirm what we see in the reflection?
There’s a lot more that can be said and a lot more I still want to gain from this piece. But, for now, I’ll leave with a quote from The Eyes of the Skin by the brilliant Juhani Pallasmaa whose work I was reminded of after reading Lacan:
“The gradually growing hegemony of the eye seems to be parallel with the development of Western ego-consciousness and the gradually increasing separation of the self and the world; vision separates us from the world whereas the other senses unite us with it.”





