Blog Post #2: Telephone Phobia in Today’s Generation
Being a part of today’s generation, I can confirm that technology, cellphones in particular, is an important factor in our daily lives. I honestly do not know someone who doesn’t have a smartphone of some kind. It is so easy to contact someone thru a text message or with a post on social media. What surprises me is the reluctance that people have when they have to make a phone call. Personally, I have always preferred making a call rather than texting multiple times to contact someone. In his article, Don’t Hate the Phone Call, Hate the Phone, Ian Bogost explains why people are so afraid to pick up their phone and make a call as easily as they can text, and it is not because people are anxious or lazy.
Bogost argues that the reason why people hesitate to make a phone call is not because we are lazy or anxious, but rather that it is an inconvenience to us. The phone that was once primarily used for communication is now used for a multitude of other things to a point where it’s not even good enough as a phone anymore. He writes, “When asked, people with a distaste for phone calls argue that they are presumptuous and intrusive, especially given alternative methods of contact that don’t make unbidden demands for someone’s undivided attention.”, telling us that a phone call is merely an interruption, causing people to drop whatever it is they are doing to pick up their phone. Rather than addressing the phone call and partaking in a conversation, people prefer any other means of communication that won’t require them to talk. It is much simpler to just connect through text message or email because it gives the person more time to reply back, and sometimes to just not reply at all.
Another reason why Bogost thinks that the concept of the phone has deteriorated is because of the fact that as we have moved away from using landlines to cellphones, the quality of the call has diminished. The design change in phones from the round shape to the flat rectangular boxes we have now have resulted in less noise being able to pass through either microphones or speakers on the telephone, and as a result, it’s harder to hear people as well as be heard. Privacy is also an issue. Before, landlines were installed into homes for a means of private communication. Calls were much clearer and precise. Phone calls brought people together; they relayed warmth and intimacy, and kept relationships well maintained. Nowadays, the settings and circumstances where people answer their phones now are usually louder than they have ever been due to the fact that people don’t typically “step out to take a call” anymore, because they are in public areas for the most of their day. There is also a disdain for having actual phone conversations in the fear that you will make a mistake in speaking or be misunderstood.
It is agreed that smartphones are indeed convenient in today’s time and age. I personally will always prefer phone calls over a text or email, but it is understandable why some people may not think the same way. Rather than letting it become a hindrance and making us socially awkward, we should strive to communicate wholly, starting with a phone call.


